mellednsfw:

1. Don’t send dick pics to get partners. Dicks are weird looking and can only be made good with skilled angling and lighting. I say this as someone with a partner who has a dick, I don’t even like pictures of it unless I need art references. Plus its super awkward if you’re not to that point of comfort yet and its something you can’t undo. You know what gets people attracted to you no matter what the gender? Pictures of you smiling with small animals. Its cute as fuck, everyone will melt and want to talk to you about it.

2. If you haven’t ever used a type of sex toy, buy a cheaper version of it to see if it works for you before you make that investment. More expensive is not always better. Read the worst reviews first (do this with everything you buy). Toys also don’t mean your partner is in any way “not enough” sex can be fun, this is just ways to make it different. Buy rechargable ones, they are more expensive but not having batteries is a real pain. Especially if you don’t want people to know you have a toy

3. There are lots of different types of birth control besides traditional condoms and the pill. There are also more ways to deal with your period besides disposable pads and tampons. Research and experiment to find what works for you.

4. Never value or devalue yourself or someone else because of virginity. Sex is just an experience we have, it is not some judgement of character unless you’re forcing it on someone. Also the hymen is complete bs and can easily tear through daily life or not during actual sex.

5. Use lube for anal, lots of it. butt plugs help to. 

6. Read the comic ohjoysextoy.com its great

7. Talk about everything with your partner. Be firm. If you’re uncomfortable or too stressed to have sex, or even not in the mood, that is enough to say no. Sex is an emotionally and physically strenuous activity, don’t try to convince people to do it if they don’t want to.

8. Don’t get hung up on sexuality or gender. If you’re attracted to another consenting adult, its fine. You don’t have to put any labels on it if you don’t want to.

9. Masturbation is fine an natural, just make sure you have privacy and keep everything clean, especially if you use toys internally. Porn is fine to, no mater what form you like it in. Having a kink in fantasy is not the same as real life, just communicate before acting on it. Try your best to make sure everyone involved was involved of their own volition. 

10. Don’t be afraid to talk to your doctor about any and all symptoms you have. 

Be safe, be healthy, have fun

mellednsfw:

I swear only like the most sfw pics get flagged. I can have cumflation and ectodicks all over the place but it says “ti**y” and that’s too much

mellednsfw:

Is it painfully ironic that the site that was vilified by the rest of the internet for being aggressively progressive in sexuality and gender expression and equality…

Is dying with the staff claiming that women’s nipples are offensive enough to not be seen but men’s are not?

sesurescue:

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Places to Find Sesu if Tumblr loses its collective shit 100%

I was ready to ignore all the tumblr shit going on recently, but it’s uh…getting harder and harder to do that.

So, just in case shit goes bonkers, here’s a list of places to find me:

Ao3: Sesurescue (or Kigachan, either will work), MezzoSesu (Multi-fandom, currently SFW)

The ol’ reliable in terms of usage. All my fics will continue to go here no problem

Twitter: @SesuRescue 

I’m real bad at using Twitter but I respond pretty well to notifications on my phone, so I guess if you need me just @ me or DM. A little less usage here but not zero. 

Pillowfort.io: SesuRescue, MezzoSesu

The newest to my multimedia, I’m still getting a handle on how to use this. Gonna have to link all my fics there at some point jfc.

thanks all! I’ll reblog this post with some links at some point maybe

Edit:OH! I also have a SFW tumblr I just made yesterday the other day but probably will ignore forever: MezzoSesu

Seems I should reblog this again since Tumblr has, in fact, 100% lost it’s collective shit

Sorry, I should do this:

A03: Sesurescue (or Kigachan, either will work), MezzoSesu (Multi-fandom, currently SFW)
https://archiveofourown.org/users/Kigachan/pseuds/SesuRescue
https://archiveofourown.org/users/mezzosesu/works

Twitter: @SesuRescue 
https://twitter.com/sesurescue

Pillowfort: SesuRescue, MezzoSesu

https://www.pillowfort.io/SesuRescue
http://www.pillowfort.io/MezzoSesu

SFW Tumblr: MezzoSesu
https://mezzosesu.tumblr.com/

Since Pillowfort is back up, add me there!

liberalsarecool:

Please spread the word that enrollment for health care ends Dec 15. #obamacare

howtobangyourmonster:

act1:

so how about that teaser

YUUUUUUUUUP

In my most unrealistic fantasy, I want a dream-team of the Hero of Ferelden, Hawke, and the Inquisitor all working together and you get to choose which one to play as. Also I want a full romance with Varric.